--- In SkunkworksAMA_at_yahoogroups.com, Karabiner <den_at_x> wrote:
<snip>
> I was ashamed to talk about this situation to my friends
> excepting one. His name is Michael Hirtes who is one of my good old
> friends. He posted a message about my bad situation to help me out
> of kindness.
> But I hear that he got many bashing emails to blame him. I was very
> sad to hear that and decided to confide my situation. Please DON'T
> blame him. It's me who must be blamed. I should post something
> myself, but I couldn't. I was too blamed to do so. I don't lose
> Michael Hirtes because he is one of the people who invited
> me to furry fandom.
No. No no no no no. Do not blame yourself, Karabiner. Hirtes did not
get attacked because of you, or for trying to help you. He got
bashing emails because he behaved like a complete jerk. He insulted
people, he swore, he disrupted the group.
It was his fault, not yours. He acted badly.
Do not blame yourself.
Oh, and you don't have to post twice. The message didn't go through
the first time because all new members are moderated. That means that
messages have to be approved first.
Received on Sun Mar 16 2003 - 23:04:32 CST